What is barthes saying about love?

In “I Love You,” a chapter from the book A Lover’s Discourse, Roland Barthes writes, “I-love-you has no usages. Like a child’s word, it enters into no social constraint; it can be a sublime, solemn, trivial word, it can be an erotic, pornographic word. It is a socially irresponsible word” (148).
Write an essay in which you interpret this passage and relate his argument to one of the readings we discuss (you can use The Matrix). What is Barthes saying about love? The relationship between lovers? The distorting effect of the words “I love you”?
I decided to use edgar allen poe’s ” Annabel Lee” to relate to this .